CULTURE AND ADOPTION



Angelina Jolie and her adopted daughter

 Adoption

Some children are born under extreme circumstances. A child cannot grow or live under those circumstances. Sometimes it can be hard for a single parent to raise a child alone with no one to provide food, shelter and clothes for him. This can become worse and parents must decide whether to give child for adoption. Women can find themselves in a terrible situation of rape. Sadly, as a result she might fall pregnant and have to deal with rape and pregnancy alone. As, we all informed rape victims go through a lot of stress, anger and hatred. How much when you know that there is a child coming within nine month. You don’t even know his father’s name and his whereabouts. Under those circumstances a women might decide to give the child for adoption.

Adoption is a legal process that creates responsible permanent parents and comfortable home for a child. The adoption process takes place in court before the judge. They don’t need ‘’perfect’’ parents they need more caring and committed individuals willing to meet children’s needs. Most adoption parents are those who are unable to get children in their marriage. Some adopters are parents who have children, and financially stable but want to give a child a better future. There are celebrities who adopt children to give them better life. Take Angelina Jolie She is a successful actress and world known millionaire she adopted two children one from Africa and other from China.

There are some complicated issues about the adoption process. We live in society with many different cultures. Those cultures must be respected .This becomes difficult when a child is being adopted by the parents outside the country. There are changes that occur and demands. It affect child as she is changing environment to another. For example in South Africa, culture is respected and there is traditional performance that takes place when a child is born.

How does that practiced if the child is in another country. Is it not going to affect the child as his roots are from Africa?

We must put the needs of a child first. If an adopter is willing to commit child’s needs then she might have the child. As our tradition and culture important to us a child future is what counts the most.

Prostitution seems to be "the easiest" job to find in South Africa

In South Africa many young women takes prostitution as a better way to survive. Statistics are getting higher and higher as many desperate women are working as sex workers.Sex workers are people who works in sex industries ,specifically a person who commercially trades in sex.They have sexually intercourse with strangers in exchange of money. Sometimes this can be done without using protection as the client would be demanding his rights. As a result they are in danger of HIV/AIDS and other diseases such as STIs .Sometimes their clients {buyers} take advantage of them as they get beaten and unpaid. Earlier this month prostitutes took it on streets as they were upset about the death of their colleague, who died from the injuries of an assault by a hotel manager in Hilbrow.

WHAT MAKES YOUNG WOMEN RISK THEIR LIVES AND LOSE THEIR DIGNITY

We might not know the reasons but its more than making money and enjoying sex .Choosing a carrier in sex industry is not some thing that came over night, not something came out in happy days maybe in some of them. But the issues around our country play a role. Issues like unemployment which became biggest enemy in many citizens. That can lead the way through sex life. But it’s all about the choices that we make in order to survive. But is this the only option?

Sex workers are demanding their rights against state police brutality against sex workers, sexual offences committed by police and also a plea to investigate some of the crimes committed by police. In the march that was led by the Sex Workers' Education and Advocacy Task Force (Sweat) and Sisonke Sex Workers Movement, which are organizations that seek to ensure human rights for sex workers.

NEPOTISM IN OUR COUNTRY

Unemployment is the biggest problem in our country. Showing favouritism to relatives in appointing them to jobs is increasing in our country. This happens in local government municipalities. It is done by people who are in high position in their work. They employ their relatives to jobs that they are not qualifyed for, and do not meet the requirement for.These jobs are meant to go to poor  and deserving people who are qualified for that position.

They employ unskilled and uneducated people; some who don’t even know what their position requires them to do,while graduates are sitting at homes because of unemployment. Now people get work without being qualified but because their relatives are in charge, they are hired. This also goes to the issue of inequality in our country.Class Inequality has worsened to the point where it is now the widest in the world.  Tenders are given to rich individuals making them richer. Taxpayer’s money is used unnecessarly.All in the name of looking out after your comrades and relatives while that money can be used for greater cause to fight unemployment. 

 The rate of unemployed people is increasing each and every year .The government must take action against those who engage themselves in corruption to make themselves wealthy.While nepotism is continues in our country many deserving graduates we still seat in street corners with no job to go to.The truth is,this ''job creation'' that the government is preaching about will only benefit relatives and families of those only in power. Sadly,this is destroying our country and is a challenge that all South Africans must fight .